<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></title><description><![CDATA[I write Fashion Commentary = Fashiontary which is about fashion, beauty, lifestyle. I'm a mom and designer.]]></description><link>https://www.fashiontary.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iCZ9!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe215486d-3386-482a-958f-9a936cc8d760_1600x1600.png</url><title>Fashiontary Files</title><link>https://www.fashiontary.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 12:27:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.fashiontary.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[With love]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[fashiontary@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[fashiontary@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[fashiontary@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[fashiontary@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[My Pillows Lost Their Stuffing]]></title><description><![CDATA[A mastectomy, a new normal, and the wardrobe I never asked for]]></description><link>https://www.fashiontary.com/p/my-pillows-lost-their-stuffing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.fashiontary.com/p/my-pillows-lost-their-stuffing</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 18:14:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iCZ9!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe215486d-3386-482a-958f-9a936cc8d760_1600x1600.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My pillows lost their stuffing, and somehow I&#8217;m holding up just fine. Plot twist: I had a mastectomy with reconstruction. Not the most glamorous detour, but a real one. And yes, it came with a whole new wardrobe I never asked for.</p><p>I&#8217;m not the first to go through this and I won&#8217;t be the last. I don&#8217;t want a mastectomy to feel like something we only talk about quietly or when we have to. So I&#8217;m going to start sharing more about it here, just as part of real life, including how it&#8217;s impacted me and, of course, my style.</p><p>Some of it will be practical. Some of it will be honest. Some of it might even be funny, because that&#8217;s how I get through most things.</p><p>Also, in case you&#8217;re wondering, yes, I went through an almost unreasonable number of compression bras, workout clothes, and everything labeled &#8220;mastectomy-friendly.&#8221; I tested more brands than I can count trying to figure out what actually worked. Spoiler: you don&#8217;t need nearly that much. Every body is different, but hopefully this helps.</p><p>So to start, I&#8217;m sharing what did and didn&#8217;t work, and what actually made a difference. I can&#8217;t do underwire anymore, so comfort and support are everything.</p><p>If you&#8217;re going through this or just starting to look into it, feel free to reach out. Happy to share anything I&#8217;ve learned.<br><br>Best Compression Bra:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/47a4T26">Prairie</a> - by far the highest quality and most comfortable I found. I wore it daily and had one in the color fawn and one in black.</p><p>Best workout bra post mastectomy (consult your doctor):<br><a href="https://amzn.to/4rKC7fM">Beyond Yoga Racerback Cropped Tank</a> - once my doctor cleared me to move from compression bras to workout bras, this is where I had the most success. They&#8217;re soft, have great elasticity, and really hold up over time. I had one Beyond Yoga bra for nearly 10 years before finally stretching it out post-mastectomy expanders.</p><p></p><p><em>As an Amazon Associate, I may earn from qualifying purchases. I may also earn from affiliate links, at no extra cost to you.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Chapstick Is Basically Your Toxic Ex]]></title><description><![CDATA[Stops ghosting your lips after five minutes and actually shows up with real hydration.]]></description><link>https://www.fashiontary.com/p/your-chapstick-is-basically-your</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.fashiontary.com/p/your-chapstick-is-basically-your</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Fashiontary Files]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 18:52:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iCZ9!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe215486d-3386-482a-958f-9a936cc8d760_1600x1600.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are the lip protectors I reach for year round. They keep your lips actually hydrated, not just temporarily glossy, and they don&#8217;t cost a fortune. Once you switch, your old chapsticks will feel like a bad relationship you finally got out of.</p><p>Here are a few recommendations:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/4cSmHCp">Malin+Goetz Lip Moisturizer</a> - the reliable partner who never lets you down. Keep one in every pocket and every bag.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4bvpqzi">Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask</a> - the sugar daddy of lip care. Overdelivers overnight and somehow still shows up perfectly under (and over) lipstick, liner, or gloss.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4sWnXJA">Egyptian Magic</a> - the wildcard. A little greasy, a lot effective. If you can handle an oil-based finish, this one works. Great for your lips and good for your body, but more on my secret hand cream formulas soon.</p><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.fashiontary.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><p><em>Note: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. 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